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I was talking to another Asian friend about dating — bad dates, embarrassing dates, funny dates — when we inevitably got to the topic of dating as women of color.

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On a vacation to Virginia Beach, a homeless man high-fived my boyfriend and asked him, without ever looking at me, what it was gow to sleep with an Asian girl. But the moment passed and no one batted an eye. I brought up the comment later on the car ride home.

Immediately, my boyfriend got defensive and accused me of overreacting. Well-meaning people can be ignorant.

Well-meaning people can be your friends. They can be your partner. Well-meaning people can misunderstand if you try to show them the ways you feel dehumanized.

Well-meaning people can try to explain it away. At first, the weight of the question, and the anger of years having an idea thrust upon me, overwhelmed me.

I felt like the question trivialized my experience of being objectified. How do you explain feeling small tto you know you are magnificent? Sometimes you will have to show them who you are.

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